I once heard a psychologist explain that depression is
caused when a person can only see two ways to go and he doesn’t like either one
of them. That may be an
over-simplification, but there is something important here for all of us: there
are always options.
Too many times we come into a situation and only see one or
two options open for us to pursue. If we don’t like either one, sometimes we
need to accept what we don’t like and move on. But often there are other
options if we just let our imaginations explore the situation. Many times there
are options that aren’t as obvious that offer us new possibilities and great
opportunities, but we have been so stuck in the rut of habit that we don’t even
consider those options.
So next time you are feeling vexation because of choices you
need to make, sit down with a piece of paper and write out all the options you
can think of. Let your imagination soar. Some of the things you think of may be
absolutely ridiculous, but write them down anyway. They’ll give you a good laugh
and that is like taking medicine! Later go back through the list, consider each
option carefully, and then choose the best one. Don’t look back, move forward
in faith and then let the future unfold for you.
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